When it comes to deal with our dreams, we can:
- lose
- do a step in the right direction everyday
- just forget them.
You can put those dreams away or you can ride them, it’s just a matter of choosing right moment and keeping the will and bravery to get what we want, everyday (yes, for common people this means to lose).
During our days we may become villains simply heading to our objectives. It’s easy to forget our human gentleness, just a bump on someone without saying “sorry” and that day is gone (yes, that means losing while becoming a bad person).
That happened today, I looked in the mirror (not my bathroom mirror, it’s a metaphorical inner mirror, ok?) and thought: simone, you are a shit person. And that’s not the worst thing.
It’s even worse when we have to struggle against the dreams of our mate: that’s an instant and complete defeat. Even if we force ourselves to accept that new and far job, that foreign study vacation, those new ambitions and these new friends. We are just split in fear and no winning options are available. While we can be happy for our mate’s new great things in life, we must prepare to be alone again.
What will you choose?
- a poor, messed up life full of love and random painful love
- a giant, empty, clean house (alone… but everything under control!)
